Monday, 20 August 2012

Just to Say..

I keep rolling over in my head that there has been no acknowledgement directly to me about this situation, as of yet. Acknowledgement...I have dragged out , though yanking, pulling and yelling at other people this is happening to or have noticed it happening, twice...but not a direct explanation of what the argument is about.
Example....friend very mad finally walks up to me in his apartment, points out the window and states. "Stop doing that to me" I respond "Me doing that to you? No! You stop doing that to me!"
Conversation end
The acknowledgement, that he can hear what is being said outside.
Now more recent type of aclmowledgement, Meeting someone in person and they refer to me as "Buddy" They appear out of no where and through actions repeat previous to me. Still no verbal words stating yes we hear and yes this is what is going on in person.

all implied not stated directly...very agitating and frustrating.



I am a very approachable, calm, understanding person. A man that acknowledges a person that tries to engage me and I makes sure the person knows I have heard what they have said.
My last three position professional all hinged on exceptional listening skills. To Listen, acknowledge, anticipate a person's need and wants though, active listening.

I hear you, Thank you for your opinion. What else is there......I hear what you have to say, I have heard your concerns, your rants, your irrational thoughts, your woes, and your dirty secrets.

You say you know me inside and out, you know me, you know what I think and anticipate my every move or what I will say......I know you as well...I may not see you, but I hear you, I hear all you have to say ladies.....and now some men.   I know your dirty little secrets.

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